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So in this first section, I wanted to walk through getting on how committed he really is in the first place.

I would think things like, “Well, things seem good, but what if she’s doing something behind my back and playing me for a fool, etc.

etc.” This type of thing has a lot more to do with our own personal insecurities and not so much with what the other person is or isn’t doing.

Something in me made me curious and I looked at your Match profile and saw you’d logged on recently after we said we’d be exclusive. I’m not here to ‘catch you’ or worry about what you may or may not be up to…

Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.

I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…

I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.

this is separate, but I want to address it for your sake in general).